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Keys to Communicating Effectively
"Finish your outdoor work and get
your fields ready. After that, build your
house." - Proverbs 24:27
Dear Friend,
What have you been trying to accomplish,
but found yourself unable to make great
progress? Both personally and as a life
coach, I have often found that women become
stuck not because they don't know how to
move forward, but because the mental and
physical chaos of their lives clouds their
path.
If you are feeling stuck in some area of
your life, start clearing some clutter and
notice how your mental clarity improves and
momentum starts to build. Where is your
clutter starting to accumulate?
Clutter is one of the greatest thieves
of clarity, focus, energy and productivity -
and it has a tendency to creep up on you.
Have you ever noticed how much easier it is
to get things done and think clearly when
your environment is free of clutter?
Enlist the help of your family,
co-workers, or employees to clear clutter at
work, home and in the car - the three areas
where you spend the majority of your time.
Most importantly, schedule some time in the
next seven days - even if it is only 30
minutes - to clear your clutter! What
specifically should you clear and why?
1. Stuff you don't use
anymore.
Are you holding
on to things you don't use? Look around your
office, home and car. What could you give
away (if it's in good condition) or throw
away (because it's broken or in bad shape)?
Many people hold on to things out of fear
that they will need them in the future. It's
a fear of not having enough.
Don't allow that fear to cause you to
clutter your environment. Be willing to let
go of things when you no longer need them or
use them.
2. Projects you are
procrastinating on.
You
may not think of it as clutter, but that old
to-do list that keeps rolling over in your
head everyday is clutter for your brain.
Either drop the projects, complete them now,
or give yourself a new and reasonable
deadline.
3. Too much stuff in too
little space.
If you are
one of the many who crams everything into
your space, it's time to make room in your
environment. From your desk at work to your
bathroom counters, overcrowding your space
can leave you feeling mentally overcrowded.
Psychologically speaking, when you make
space in your environment, you make room for
more of what you want in your life.
4. Mess, junk, and stuff that
is in disarray!
When
things are completely out of order, it is
more difficult to plan, strategize, think or
take action effectively. Before ending your
day, take five minutes to put things in
order - at work, home and in your car - so
that you can start fresh the next day.
5. Things you don't like.
Is there anything in your
car, home or office that you simply don't
like? Your environments should inspire you,
not depress, frustrate or irritate you. Make
sure your environments are filled with the
sites, scents and sounds you love most.
MY CHALLENGE TO YOU
THIS MONTH
Set aside some time (whether it's five
minutes or five hours!) to clear clutter in
your environment in the area that stresses
you most.
JOURNALING
ASSIGNMENT
What specifically causes you stress in
your environments (home, work, car)? What
are you willing to do to enhance your
environment so that it energizes you rather
than causes you stress?
PERSONAL PRAYER
Lord, give me clarity to see your vision
and your guidance for me. Give me the
discipline and strength to clear the
physical clutter around me and let go of the
mental and emotional clutter that sometimes
keep me stuck.