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4 Keys to Communicating Effectively

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4 Keys to Communicating Effectively

"Finish your outdoor work and get your fields ready. After that, build your house." - Proverbs 24:27

Dear Friend,

What have you been trying to accomplish, but found yourself unable to make great progress? Both personally and as a life coach, I have often found that women become stuck not because they don't know how to move forward, but because the mental and physical chaos of their lives clouds their path.

If you are feeling stuck in some area of your life, start clearing some clutter and notice how your mental clarity improves and momentum starts to build. Where is your clutter starting to accumulate?

Clutter is one of the greatest thieves of clarity, focus, energy and productivity - and it has a tendency to creep up on you. Have you ever noticed how much easier it is to get things done and think clearly when your environment is free of clutter?

Enlist the help of your family, co-workers, or employees to clear clutter at work, home and in the car - the three areas where you spend the majority of your time. Most importantly, schedule some time in the next seven days - even if it is only 30 minutes - to clear your clutter! What specifically should you clear and why?

1. Stuff you don't use anymore.
Are you holding on to things you don't use? Look around your office, home and car. What could you give away (if it's in good condition) or throw away (because it's broken or in bad shape)? Many people hold on to things out of fear that they will need them in the future. It's a fear of not having enough.

Don't allow that fear to cause you to clutter your environment. Be willing to let go of things when you no longer need them or use them.

2. Projects you are procrastinating on.
You may not think of it as clutter, but that old to-do list that keeps rolling over in your head everyday is clutter for your brain. Either drop the projects, complete them now, or give yourself a new and reasonable deadline.

3. Too much stuff in too little space.
If you are one of the many who crams everything into your space, it's time to make room in your environment. From your desk at work to your bathroom counters, overcrowding your space can leave you feeling mentally overcrowded. Psychologically speaking, when you make space in your environment, you make room for more of what you want in your life.

4. Mess, junk, and stuff that is in disarray!
When things are completely out of order, it is more difficult to plan, strategize, think or take action effectively. Before ending your day, take five minutes to put things in order - at work, home and in your car - so that you can start fresh the next day.

5. Things you don't like.
Is there anything in your car, home or office that you simply don't like? Your environments should inspire you, not depress, frustrate or irritate you. Make sure your environments are filled with the sites, scents and sounds you love most.



MY CHALLENGE TO YOU THIS MONTH

Set aside some time (whether it's five minutes or five hours!) to clear clutter in your environment in the area that stresses you most.



JOURNALING ASSIGNMENT

What specifically causes you stress in your environments (home, work, car)? What are you willing to do to enhance your environment so that it energizes you rather than causes you stress?



PERSONAL PRAYER

Lord, give me clarity to see your vision and your guidance for me. Give me the discipline and strength to clear the physical clutter around me and let go of the mental and emotional clutter that sometimes keep me stuck.

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