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The View Debates The N-Word

Hi World,

I was watching The View yesterday, and the ladies were discussing Jesse Jackson’s use of the N-word on Fox News, and all of a sudden, a big debate begun amongst the ladies as to when the word is and isn’t appropriate. Elisabeth Hasselbeck thinks that no one, regardless of color, should be using the word, while Sherri Shepard and Whoopi Goldberg thought that the word is ok to be used only among black people.

As for my opinion, I agree with Elisabeth ( There was never a time when I thought that I would say those words, lol). I usually disagree with many of Elisabeth’s opinions, so I was surprised with how much I agreed with her and not with either Sherri or Whoopi, even though I am black. I don’t see how it is ok to use the n-word in any situation. I was actually kind of sickened when Sherri was trying to explain her logic as to why some black people use the word. I was annoyed when Barbara Walters kept on repeating that if she used the n-word she would get in trouble. Every time she said this, I kept thinking, “Why would you want to say it anyway?” It’s like she is dying to say it or something. I was also surprised when Barbara asked Sherri what she would do if she started saying the word, and Sherri said, “”I don’t want to hear it come out of your mouth.” I remember being shocked by that because Sherri said those words to Barbara, her boss by the way, in a serious tone that implied that she really would hurt Barbara if she said the n-word to her.

What I didn’t like about the debate was that Whoopi was on Elisabeth’s case for being against the usage of the n-word. I felt that Whoopi did that because it was Elisabeth and also because she didn’t want Elisabeth to get the last word on it. I was really surprised when Elisabeth started crying because it came out of nowhere. I would like to think that her crying was sincere, because if it wasn’t, then she wouldn’t be crying. I just kept thinking, “Why is this white woman crying about something that doesn’t have anything to do with her?” On further analysis, though, I’m realizing that more people should think like Elisabeth in the matter of the n-word. People-whether they are black, white, or green-should feel offended by the word and get angry and cry over its use. I hate how some people, particularly black people, justify its use, and by the way, neither Whoopi nor Sherri differentiated between using the n word with an -er or an -a ending, thank God, because to me, it really doesn’t matter how it is used. It shouldn’t be used at all.

What are your thoughts on the issue?

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  • I absolutely agree with the first comment, the is a part of our history whether we associate it positively or negatively, it's a choice. Words with a negative intent are just in poor taste all the way around, for me personally I feel most offended when referred to as the B--ch word? Women use it casually, personally identify themselves with it, men use at women all the time, now that pisses me off, LOL
    Sistah42, on Sun, Aug 10, 02:50 PM | Flag as Inappropriate
  • Aw, the infamous "N" word. First and foremost, the "N" word will never be sent to the sea of oblivion. It started out as a derogatory word and it will always be. But some black people, no matter how educated they are or want people to believe they are, will use the word in secret. Just like some white people use it in the "comfort" of other white people who use the term loosely to describe people of color. The word is never, ever going to go away. It's even in the dictionary. All of this energy being spent on a word, which I believe, is a loosing battle. The only time people protest is when someone says it publicly and then the whole world is in an outrage, even the very people who know they use it on the regular. It's insane. Blacks who use the word with an "a", in their mind, I'm sure, are speaking a totally different language than a white person using it with the "er". So the debate will continue until the end of time.
    thegyfted1, on Fri, Jul 18, 04:29 PM | Flag as Inappropriate



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